Give It Up for Lent: 7 Ways the Observance Can Deepen Your Faith and Enrich Your Life

Each year, the season of Lent invites us to slow down, pay attention, and tend to the deeper places of our lives. Observed during the forty days leading up to Easter, Lent has long been understood as a season of preparation, a time to tune our hearts, habits, and hopes to the teachings and attitudes of Jesus. Far from being a gloomy or burdensome practice, observing Lent can be deeply enriching, offering clarity, freedom, and renewal for everyday living.

I was not introduced to the disciplines of Lent until I was in college. I had heard about Lent, but I assumed it was something my more liturgical friends dutifully observed by giving up one or two things they enjoyed. However, once I better understood the intent, I discovered a more prayerful and reflective prequel to the resurrection.

Lent is a season to reevaluate, realign, and recalibrate. Here are 7 ways observing Lent can deepen your faith and enrich your life:

  • Lent teaches us to pause. In a culture that prizes speed and productivity, Lent gives us permission to stop and reflect. It invites us to notice where we are spiritually and where we may be drifting. Andy Stanley observed, “We don’t drift in good directions. We discipline and prioritize ourselves there.” We need to pause introspectively for self-evaluation.
  • Lent sharpens our self-awareness. Through prayer and honest reflection, Lent helps us recognize both our gifts and our growing edges. We become more attentive to the habits, attitudes, and assumptions that shape our lives, for better or worse. We need to be alert to our vulnerabilities and awakened to our potential.
  • Lent cultivates humility. Historically, the early church used Lent as a season of catechesis and repentance, reminding believers that faith is not about perfection but transformation. Acknowledging our need for grace softens our hearts and increases our compassion for others.
  • Lent reorders our priorities. Fasting, whether from food, screens, affinities, or distractions, teaches us that we do not live by bread alone. What we set aside reveals what we have been relying on. In that letting go, we rediscover what truly nourishes us.
  • Lent strengthens empathy. When we practice restraint, we become more aware of those who live with daily scarcity, struggle, or deprivation. Lent stretches our concern beyond ourselves and invites us into acts of generosity, advocacy, and justice.
  • Lent clarifies our focus. Cleaning out a cluttered garage can be challenging. However, once the excess is removed, the remaining items become visible and useful again. Often, we discover tools we had forgotten. Lent functions the same way for the soul, clearing shelves, discarding, re-purposing, and reclaiming, so faith has space to grow and flourish.
  • Lent prepares us for joy. The purpose of Lent is not the denial of pleasure but the restoration of joy. By walking honestly through repentance and reflection, we increase our gratitude for the passion of Christ and strengthen our commitment to the mission of Christ.

Lent creates sacred space for solitude and spiritual reflection. As Henri Nouwen once observed, “Without solitude it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life.”

Whatever you choose to give up for Lent will be more than outweighed by the blessings and benefits you receive through its faithful observance. When embraced with intention, the ancient practice of Lent becomes a gift that gently reshapes how we live, love, and walk with God each day.

What Is Lent and Why Do We Observe It?

Each year, as winter begins to fade and the hope of spring draws near, the Christian calendar marks a sacred season: Lent. But what exactly is Lent? Lent is a 40-day season of reflection, repentance, and preparation leading up to Easter. It begins on Ash Wednesday and ends on Holy Saturday, the day before Easter Sunday. Traditionally observed by many Christian faith communities, Lent is a time for spiritual self-evaluation, often marked by prayer, fasting, and acts of charity.

What is the purpose of Lent? Pope Francis suggests, “Lent comes providentially to awaken us, to shake us from our lethargy.”

Lent is a deeply personal and spiritual journey. It is a time set apart to reflect, reevaluate, repent, refrain, and refocus.

Lent is a time to reflect. Life moves fast, and it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day without pausing to consider where we are spiritually. Lent provides a unique opportunity to slow down and reflect. It invites us to ask, How is my relationship with God? Where are my priorities? Is my lifestyle consistent with my faith? Through reflection, we gain clarity about our faith and recognize areas where we need growth.

Lent is a time to reevaluate. In the stillness of reflection, we are led to reevaluate our priorities. The world constantly pulls us in different directions, often distracting us from what truly matters. Lent challenges us to examine our choices, our commitments, and our daily habits. Are we devoting our time and energy to things that nourish our souls? Are we living in a way that aligns with God’s purpose for our lives? This season gives us the space to make adjustments and realign our lives with His purposes.

Lent is a time to repent. At the heart of Lent is repentance—a turning away from sin and a turning toward God. It is a time to be honest about our shortcomings, not with shame, but with a desire for transformation. Scripture reminds us, “Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord” (Acts 3:19). Repentance is not about dwelling on our failures; it is about embracing God’s grace and asking God to renew our hearts.

Lent is a time to refrain. One of the most well-known Lenten practices is fasting—giving up something as a way of drawing closer to God. Whether it’s food, social media, entertainment, or another comfort, fasting teaches us discipline and dependence on God rather than earthly things. Refraining is not just about sacrifice; it’s about making space for something greater. When we let go of distractions, we create room for God’s presence to fill our lives in new ways. As we think about the things we might give up for Lent, Amanda Jobs reminds us, “It is not just about giving up our favorite food but it’s about going further and giving up things like hatred and unforgiveness.”

Lent is a time to refocus. Ultimately, Lent is about refocusing our hearts and minds on Christ. It is a season to strip away what is unnecessary and center our lives on what truly matters. As we journey through these 40 days, we prepare ourselves to embrace the joy and victory of the resurrection. By shifting our focus from the temporary to the eternal, we deepen our faith and draw closer to the one who teaches us how to “act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with God” (Micah 6:8).

The faithful observance of Lent can be both uncomfortable and hopeful. Kate Bowler cautions, “Lent is full of hard truths. And it is a perfect moment for spiritual honesty. We can look on this tragicomedy with love and bemusement as we wait for the someday that will be God’s promised future.”

Lent is not about obligation—it is an invitation. An invitation to reflect, to reevaluate, to repent, to refrain, and to refocus. It is a journey that leads us deeper into God’s love and prepares us for a more meaningful celebration of Christ’s resurrection.

(Barry Howard is a retired pastor who currently serves as a leadership coach and columnist with the Center for Healthy Churches. He and his wife reside on Cove Lake in northeast Alabama.)