Planting Seeds: 7 Reasons I Enjoy Having a Vegetable Garden

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There is something sacred about stepping into a vegetable garden early in the morning while the dew still clings to the leaves and the soil smells fresh from the night air. A garden is never merely about tomatoes, beans, squash, or cucumbers. It is about hope, patience, stewardship, and joy. Every spring, when seeds disappear beneath the dirt, I am reminded that some of life’s greatest miracles begin unseen.

As English horticulturist Gertrude Jekyll once said, “A garden is a grand teacher. It teaches patience and careful watchfulness.”

Early in our marriage, we had a vegetable garden almost every year. When I retired from full-time work, I decided to cultivate a spot in the corner of the backyard for small garden. Yes, I realize that I can probably purchase vegetables at the farmers’ market for less than the cost of the seed, the tomato plants, the fertilizer, the tiller, and the time invested. But there is something about cultivating the soil and nurturing the plants that makes life richer.

Here are seven reasons I like to have a vegetable garden:

1. A Garden Reminds Me That Growth Takes Time

We live in a microwave culture that demands instant results, but gardens refuse to cooperate with hurry. You cannot rush a tomato plant or bully green beans into growing faster.

Gardening teaches the spiritual discipline of patience. Seeds germinate underground long before visible evidence appears above the soil. That truth applies to life as well. Character, faith, healing, and wisdom often develop quietly before anyone notices.

Years ago, one of our neighbors once planted watermelons. Every morning, his little boy ran outside expecting giant watermelons overnight. His father simply smiled and said, “God grows watermelons one day at a time.” That may be one of the most profound theological statements I have ever heard. Most of the seeds we plant in life do not grow overnight. They need to be cultivated and nurtured over time.

2. A Garden Keeps Me Connected to Nature

There is something grounding about getting your hands in the dirt. Modern life often disconnects us from the rhythms of creation, but gardening reconnects us with the wonder of the natural world.

Naturalist Thomas Berry advised, “Gardening is an active participation in the deepest mysteries of the universe.”

A vegetable garden becomes a front-row seat to miracles: tiny seeds becoming flourishing plants, blossoms turning into food, bees pollinating flowers, and sunlight transforming into nourishment. Gardening reminds us that creation still sings the glory of God.

3. A Garden Improves My Mental and Emotional Health

Researchers increasingly recognize what gardeners have known for centuries: gardening is good for the soul. Recent studies and therapeutic programs show gardening can reduce stress, improve mood, and foster a sense of peace and accomplishment.

During the pandemic, many people rediscovered gardening as a refuge from anxiety and uncertainty. Seed companies sold out because people longed for something living and hopeful.

One friend told me that after difficult days at work, he walks straight to his garden before entering the house. Pulling weeds and watering plants helps him “leave the stress in the dirt.” I understand exactly what he means.

As author May Sarton observed, “Gardening is an instrument of grace.”

4. A Garden Teaches Responsibility and Stewardship

A neglected garden quickly reveals neglect. Plants need attention, nourishment, watering, and care. Gardens remind us that good things flourish when nurtured consistently.

That lesson extends far beyond vegetables. Marriages, friendships, churches, and communities thrive when people faithfully tend them.

During World War II, millions of Americans planted “Victory Gardens” to supplement food supplies and support their communities. By 1944, home gardeners were producing a significant portion of the nation’s vegetables. The movement demonstrated that ordinary people, working small plots of ground, could collectively make an extraordinary difference.

Sometimes changing the world begins with simply tending what is already in front of you.

5. A Garden Gives Me Healthier Food

There is no greenhouse tomato quite like a home-grown Better Boy picked moments before dinner. Garden vegetables simply taste better because freshness matters.

Gardening also changes your appreciation for food. When you have spent months watering, fertilizing, and protecting a plant, you waste less and give greater thanks for every meal.

Chef David Chang noted that gardening connects us to “math, chemistry, reading, history.” I would add gratitude to that list.

A garden reminds us that food is not manufactured in stores. It is cultivated through labor, weather, patience, and grace.

6. A Garden Creates Memories Across Generations

Some of my fondest memories involve gardens: grandparents shelling peas and shucking corn on the porch, children proudly carrying oversized cantelope into the kitchen, families sharing extra vegetables with neighbors.

Gardens have a remarkable way of bringing generations together. Grandparents pass down wisdom. Children learn responsibility. Families create traditions.

One of our great nephews has autism. He also likes to have a small garden. To anyone else it looks like a minor thing. To him, it is therapeutic joy. Gardens teach children the joy of participating in creation rather than merely consuming it.

7. A Garden Gives Me Hope

Every garden begins with faith. You place seeds into dark soil believing life will emerge. That simple act becomes a yearly reminder that endings are not always endings and barren seasons do not last forever.

Writer Alfred Austin beautifully captured it: “The glory of gardening: hands in the dirt, head in the sun, heart with nature.”

A vegetable garden quietly preaches resurrection every spring.

Perhaps that is why I keep planting a small garden year after year. Long after the plants are barren and the vines have withered, the garden leaves behind lessons about patience, stewardship, gratitude, community, and hope.

And honestly, there are few things in life more satisfying than eating a tomato sandwich made from a tomato you grew yourself.

Holiday Cacti 101: How to Tell If You Have a Thanksgiving or Christmas Cactus

Throughout the years, my grandmother gave us cuttings or babies derived from several of her houseplants, including a philodendron, a pencil cactus, and a Thanksgiving cactus. My wife and I have tended the philodendron and Thanksgiving cactus across the 40-plus years of our marriage, and the pencil cactus didn’t survive the journey.

Yesterday, the buds on our Thanksgiving cactus began to open. This morning, the plant is almost in full bloom. As I gazed at the salmon color, I began reflecting on the history and morphology of the plant.

Every year as the holidays approach, you can find various colors of these holiday cacti for sale at your local garden center or grocery store.. They’re often lumped together under the name “Christmas cactus,” but not all holiday cacti celebrate Christmas. Some arrive a full month early, bursting into bloom right around Thanksgiving.

If you’ve ever wondered what kind of cactus you actually own, or why it blooms when it does, here are a few tips:

1. Start With the Leaves: The Easiest Way to Tell Them Apart

Holiday cacti don’t have traditional leaves. Instead, they have flattened segments called phylloclades, and their shapes reveal their identity.

Thanksgiving Cactus (Schlumbergera truncata)

  • Edges are pointed, like little hooks or claws.
  • Segments look more jagged and angular.
  • Sometimes called the “claw cactus.”

Christmas Cactus (Schlumbergera × buckleyi)

  • Edges are smooth and scalloped, with a rounded shape.
  • The overall look is softer, gentler, and less spiky.

If your cactus looks like it’s growing tiny crab claws, it’s probably a Thanksgiving cactus, even if the label said “Christmas.”

2. Bloom Time: What the Calendar Can Tell You

Bloom time is the next biggest giveaway.

Thanksgiving Cactus: Late October through November

These are the early bloomers of the holiday cactus world. They often hit their peak just in time to sit next to the giblet gravy.

Christmas Cactus: Mid-December through January

These bloom closer to Christmas and sometimes even keep going into the New Year.

That said, bloom times aren’t locked in stone. Light and temperature play a huge role, so a Christmas cactus may bloom early—or a Thanksgiving cactus may bloom twice.

3. How the Blooms Look and Grow

Beyond timing, the flowers themselves offer clues.

Thanksgiving Cactus Blooms

  • Grow more horizontally, sticking out like little trumpets.
  • Look slightly more pointed and dramatic.

Christmas Cactus Blooms

  • Tend to hang downward, bell-like and delicate.
  • Appear fuller and more symmetrical.

Either way, holiday cactus blossoms are stunning—long-lasting, vibrant, and perfectly timed to bring color to shorter days.

4. Why Your Cactus Blooms When It Does

Holiday cacti are photoperiod plants, meaning they respond to:

  • Long nights
  • Shorter days
  • Cooler temperatures

Give them 12–14 hours of uninterrupted darkness and temps around 55–65°F, and they’ll start forming buds. A plant near a warm lamp may bloom late; one in a cool, darker room may bloom early.

Sometimes they even surprise you with a bonus bloom in spring.

Whether yours blooms at Thanksgiving or Christmas—or both—it’s one of the few houseplants that comes decorated right out of the box. Understanding their subtle differences helps you appreciate the unique beauty each brings to the season.

So next time you see a holiday cactus, take a closer look. You might just discover whether you have a Thanksgiving cactus showing up early, or a Christmas cactus right on time. Whether you bought your cactus this year or you have an heirloom edition, you have a living plant adding its color to your holiday décor.

(This article is curated from a variety of sources.)