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Writing Your Next Chapter: Learning from Yesterday’s Mistakes as You Embrace Today’s Opportunities

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Every life is a book still being written. Some chapters are page-turners. Others we’d rather skip, or tear out entirely, or pretend were written by someone else. But here’s the truth every good editor knows: you don’t get a great book by deleting the hard chapters. You get a great book by letting each chapter speak into the story, and then turning the page.

We are each writing our own life story. And we each make a few mistakes along the way. The question is, how will you deal with those mistakes? Will you wallow in guilt and regret? Or will you rise up and wise up as you make the most of the next day and the next opportunity?

Yesterday’s mistakes may explain part of your story, but they do not define your identity or determine your future. Learn from them, seek forgiveness where needed, extend grace to yourself, and keep moving forward. Your greatest chapters are not written by your failures but by your willingness to rise after you fall.

Here are five things worth remembering as you keep living into your story.

1. Never waste a mistake.

John Harris, a retired pastor and respected counselor in Birmingham who became one of my primary mentors and encouragers, advised me more than once as I navigated the challenges of being a pastor, “Never waste a mistake!”

In 1968, a scientist at 3M named Spencer Silver set out to invent a super-strong adhesive. What he actually invented was the opposite. His efforts resulted in a weak, pressure-sensitive glue that barely stuck to anything and could be peeled right back off. By every measure of the original assignment, it was a failure. It sat on a shelf for years, unwanted, until a colleague named Art Fry realized that a glue which didn’t quite stick was exactly what he needed to keep bookmarks from falling out of his hymnal. That “failed” adhesive became the Post-it Note, which has become one of the best-selling office products in the world.

Silver didn’t waste his mistake. He kept talking about it, kept believing it was useful for something, even when he didn’t yet know what. Thomas Edison famously took the same posture toward his own long string of failed experiments: “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Notice, he didn’t call them failures. He treated them as lessons.

Every mistake you’ve made is carrying information and potential you haven’t fully processed yet. A wasted mistake is one you feel bad about and then set down without asking what it came to teach you. A redeemed mistake is one you turn over in your hands until you find the thing it was hiding.

2. Although you cannot re-write the previous chapters of your biography, your next chapter can be the best part of your story.

Just as no author achieves perfection on their first attempt at writing, so no human being lives an error-free life. When you make mistakes, you cannot go back and unwrite the chapters already behind you. But you are not required to let yesterday’s chapter set the tone for the next segment of your story.

Maya Angelou put it simply: “I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.” That’s not an excuse for the past. It’s a hinge for the future. The chapters behind you are locked, but they’re not the whole book. As is often said, though its precise origin is debated: you can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.

Some of the most compelling stories in history are compelling precisely because of the turn partway through, the chapter where everything changes. J.K. Rowling was rejected by twelve publishers before Harry Potter found a home. Walt Disney was fired from a newspaper for “lacking imagination.” Neither of them got to revise those rejections. But neither of those rejections got to write the next chapter either. You get to decide what this one says.

3. When extending grace to others, do not neglect to extend grace to yourself.

We tend to be far more patient editors of other people’s stories than our own. A friend confesses a mistake, and we say, “That doesn’t change how I see you.” We say it, and mean it, and yet turn around and refuse ourselves the very same grace.

There’s a striking scene near the end of John’s Gospel. Peter had denied even knowing Jesus three times, on the worst night of his life, in the exact moment loyalty mattered most. It would have been reasonable for that failure to define the rest of Peter’s story. Instead, Jesus finds him on a beach and asks him, three times, “Do you love me?” — one gentle question for every denial, not to rub his face in the failure, but to write over it. Peter didn’t get a different past. He got a next chapter, and it turned out to be the chapter where he became the rock the church was built on.

If you’re the kind of person who extends grace freely to everyone except yourself, it’s past time for your to make more space for grace to do its work in your life. Extend yourself the same sentence you’d offer a friend: that doesn’t change how I see you.

4. Live so that your mistakes don’t define you. Let them refine you instead.

There’s a meaningful difference between a mistake that defines you and one that refines you. A defining mistake becomes your whole identity, the thing people whisper about, the thing you introduce yourself with in your own head before anyone else says a word. A refining mistake becomes raw material, something the heat was turned up on, but that came out of the fire more useful than it went in.

Before Abraham Lincoln became one of the most consequential presidents in American history, his résumé read like a catalog of setbacks: a failed business, a nervous breakdown, defeat after defeat in elections for state legislature, Congress, and the Senate. His later success erased none of that. All of it refined the patience and depth of character that later success required. Author and speaker John Maxwell has a phrase for this that’s worth internalizing: fail forward. Not fail and stay down. Fail forward!

The question is never really whether you’ll make mistakes. You will. The only real question is whether you’ll let them harden into an identity or soften into wisdom.

5. In the age of AI and virtual reality, be sure your life story is biography and not fantasy or fiction.

We live in a strange new season of history, where it has never been easier to construct a version of your life that isn’t quite true. A filtered photo. A curated feed. An AI-generated image of a vacation you didn’t take, a body you don’t have, a highlight reel with all the ordinary, unglamorous, mistake-filled chapters edited out. Virtual worlds let us build avatars who never fail, never age, never have an awkward year. It is entirely possible, now, to spend more energy authoring a fictional version of yourself than living an honest one.

But here’s the thing about a fictional chapter: it can look impressive, and it can still be empty, because nobody grows from a chapter they didn’t actually live. Growth requires friction, and friction requires reality. The mistakes you’re tempted to edit out of your story are often exactly the chapters doing the most work in you.

Theodore Roosevelt is credited with the observation that “comparison is the thief of joy.” And in an age when everyone else’s highlight reel is a thumb-scroll away, that theft happens faster than ever. Write your actual story. Let it include the parts that don’t photograph well. A true biography, mistakes and all, will always be worth more than a polished fiction because only the true story is actually yours, and only the real story can actually be redeemed.

Winston Churchill once said that success is not final, failure is not fatal — it is the courage to continue that counts. Life is about authenticity. Not the absence of mistakes. Not a life edited down to only its best moments. Just the courage to keep writing, one honest page at a time, one day at a time.

Your greatest chapters are not focused on your failures, yet mistakes are a part of the narrative. The best chapters are written by your willingness to rise after you fall, and to continue the journey, believing that the best part of the story is yet to come.

(Barry Howard is a retired pastor who now serves as a leadership coach and consultant with the Center for Healthy Churches. He and his wife, Amanda, live on Cove Lake in northeast Alabama.)

Moderating the Voices Within: Building Consensus Among Your Internal Constituents

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If you hear voices in your head, you are not alone.

In her poem, “The Voices Within,” Emily Dickinson described her internal dialogue like this:

The voices that live in my head,
Whispering secrets, softly they tread.
They murmur and sigh, never at rest,
Filling my mind with their constant quest.

Most of us, if not all of us, are perpetually engaged in a conversation with the collaborative and competitive voices within. Perhaps there are voices that taunt you or haunt you, and those contenders need to be disciplined, silenced, or converted. But there can also be voices that help you to find direction, make decisions, and affirm your sacred worth.

Learning to dialogue with these voices is one of our most important life skills.

Regardless of the wisdom around the table, a successful board meeting is rarely unanimous. Whether in a corporation, a church, or a city council, thoughtful decisions usually emerge after vigorous discussion. Different perspectives are expressed. Risks are identified. Opportunities are explored. Questions are asked. Ideally, the participants do not seek perfect unanimity but sufficient consensus to move confidently toward a common goal.

Perhaps our inner lives function in much the same way. We often speak of “following our heart” or “listening to our inner voice,” or even being attentive to the “still small voice,” but I suspect we do not possess a single inner voice. Rather, each of us hosts an internal committee, composed of voices shaped by our experiences, emotions, memories, hopes, fears, convictions, and faith. Every significant decision becomes something of an internal board meeting.

Years ago, while serving in Kentucky, my dear friend, Bob Lockhart, who was a wise and beloved, yet crotchety, retired pastor, told me that from his perspective, each of us has multiple constituents within who are arguing their case, and that those constituent voices lobby until a majority comes to an agreement, and that is when we make a decision.

That explanation helped me understand that we do not have an inner voice, but a cacophony of inner voices. When we make decisions, the goal is for those inner voices to reach a consensus, which leads to action, although the voices are seldom, if ever, unanimous.

Some members of that internal committee are extraordinarily helpful. One voice urges caution. Another inspires courage. One reminds us of our responsibilities. Another dreams of new possibilities. One values stability. Another longs for adventure.

These voices are not our enemies. In fact, they often protect us from impulsive decisions. Problems arise, however, when one of the haunting or taunting voices dominates the conversation while silencing all the others.

For example, when anxiety takes control, it convenes an emergency meeting where every agenda item becomes a potential disaster.

When anger chairs the meeting, every discussion becomes a debate about fairness.

When guilt presides, every decision is filtered through past failures.

When pride occupies the chair, every proposal must somehow enhance our reputation.

None of these voices should be allowed to dominate our decision-making process. The Apostle Paul understood this internal struggle. “I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate” (Romans 7:15). Paul recognized that the Christian life involves an ongoing conversation between competing desires. Spiritual maturity is learning which voices deserve influence and which must yield to Christ.

The psychologist Viktor Frankl observed, “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response.” Wisdom grows in that space. Rather than reacting to the loudest emotion of the moment, we learn to pause, reflect, pray, and discern.

I am convinced that although the voice of faith, which could also be called the voice of the Spirit, is not the only voice we hear, it should be designated as the voice that presides over all the other voices.

Nehemiah modeled this beautifully. When King Artaxerxes noticed his sadness and asked what troubled him, Nehemiah tells us, “I prayed to the God of heaven, and I answered the king” (Nehemiah 2:4–5). It was only a brief prayer, but it reveals a disciplined heart. Before speaking outwardly, Nehemiah listened inwardly for God’s direction. He allowed the voice of faith to moderate the voices of fear, uncertainty, and opportunity.

Decision-making improves when we refuse to let the most emotional voice cast the deciding vote. Instead, we invite every perspective to be heard while making sure to keep faith at the head of the table to preside over the meeting.

Dallas Willard wisely wrote, “The first and most basic thing we can and must do is to keep God before our minds.” When Christ occupies the chairperson’s seat, fear becomes prudence instead of panic. Ambition becomes stewardship instead of self-promotion. Grief becomes love remembering. Anger becomes righteous conviction rather than destructive resentment.

The goal is not to eliminate the many voices within us. God has given us emotions, memories, imagination, reason, and intuition as valuable gifts. The challenge is to bring them into proper relationship under the lordship of Christ.

Healthy decision-making is less about achieving unanimity among our internal constituents than it is about building enough consensus to move forward faithfully. There will almost always be lingering questions, unresolved tensions, and minority opinions. That is part of being human.

But when Scripture informs our minds, the Holy Spirit shapes our thinking, and prayer quiets our souls, the internal conversation becomes healthier. The competing voices gradually become contributing voices, and what once sounded like confusion begins to resemble harmony.

The next time you face an important decision, imagine convening a meeting of your internal constituents. Let fear speak but not dominate. Let wisdom ask its questions. Let experience offer its counsel. Let hope imagine possibilities.

Then, before the vote is taken, invite faith to present the closing argument.

The internal voices will not go away. So, learn to hear and discern those voices wisely.

Emily Dickinson concluded her poem with these words:

So, I listen, I ponder, I try to make sense,
Of the myriad voices, their presence immense.
They shape my thoughts, they shape my art,
The voices within, an inseparable part.

Holy Terra Firma! Noticing and Savoring the Sacred Moments in Life

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The Jesuit poet Gerard Manley Hopkins observed, “The world is charged with the grandeur of God.”

Hopkins believed that God’s presence saturates the ordinary day-to-day world. If we have eyes to see and hearts to perceive, every sunrise, every act of kindness, every note of beautiful music, and every expression of genuine love can become a window through which we glimpse the sacred and the holy.

Perhaps that is why God so often chose ordinary places to reveal His extraordinary presence.

Moses was tending sheep when he encountered the burning bush. Jacob was sleeping on a stone when he dreamed of a ladder reaching into heaven. The disciples were mending nets, walking dusty roads, sharing meals, and sailing across the Sea of Galilee when they discovered that they were standing in the presence of the Son of God.

The sacred has always had a way of surprising us. Scripture tells us that when Moses approached the burning bush, God said, “Remove the sandals from your feet, for the place where you are standing is holy ground.” (Exodus 3:5)

Notice that the ground itself was not inherently holy. God’s presence made it holy.

The same is true today. Sometimes the holiest moments are not experienced in a sanctuary or viewed through the prism of stained glass. There are occasions when seemingly ordinary moments become sacred—a sunrise bursting over the horizon, a conversation with a friend, the breaking of bread, listening to music, telling a story, rekindling a cherished memory, or serving someone in need. In those moments, we sense the Divine Presence and become aware, if only for a fleeting instant, that we are standing on holy ground.

I tend to call that sacred space “Holy Terra Firma.”

I was in seminary when I first heard of Brother Lawrence, a seventeenth-century Carmelite monk who spent much of his life working in the monastery kitchen. Washing pots and preparing meals hardly seemed like sacred work, yet he discovered profound communion with God amid the clatter of dishes and the routine of daily chores. His classic work, The Practice of the Presence of God, reminds us that God’s presence is not confined to cathedrals. The kitchen can become a sanctuary when our hearts and minds are attentive.

The beloved poet Elizabeth Barrett Browning expressed a similar truth: “Earth’s crammed with heaven, and every common bush afire with God; but only he who sees takes off his shoes.”

Her imagery intentionally echoes Moses before the burning bush. The world is filled with holy moments, but too often we hurry past them without noticing.

Music has long helped us recognize these sacred encounters. Some of our most beloved hymns and songs remind us that holy ground is not merely a geographical location but a spiritual experience. Bill and Gloria Gaither’s beloved song “Holy Ground” declares, “We are standing on holy ground.” Likewise, “Surely the Presence of the Lord Is in This Place” by Lanny Wolfe has encouraged worshipers for generations to recognize God’s nearness. Even traditional hymns such as “Be Still, My Soul,” “Near to the Heart of God,” and “Open My Eyes, That I May See” invite us to become more aware of God’s presence in the ordinary rhythms of life.

Perhaps that is why certain songs move us so deeply. They awaken our awareness that heaven often touches earth in the most unexpected places.

Jesus certainly understood this. He transformed ordinary meals into sacred fellowship. He turned common fishing boats into floating classrooms. He made dusty roads into places of discipleship. He changed a rugged cross into the doorway of redemption and an empty tomb into the birthplace of hope.

Everywhere Jesus went, ordinary places became extraordinary because He was present.

The same invitation remains before us. The challenge is not that God has stopped speaking. The challenge is that we have become distracted by the clammoring noise around us. Our calendars are full. Our phones constantly demand our attention. Our schedules seldom allow us to linger long enough to notice the sacred that quietly surrounds us.

The psalmist offers to us a timeless invitation: “Be still, and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46:10)

Stillness creates space for wonder. Wonder awakens gratitude. And gratitude opens our eyes to God’s presence.

I’ve heard quite a few motivational speakers and inspirational preachers say, “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.” Many of those breathtaking moments are, in reality, holy moments.

Today, slow down. Watch the sunrise. Listen carefully to a child’s laughter. Share an unhurried meal with someone you love. Visit a friend. Offer encouragement to someone who is weary. Serve a neighbor in need. Pause long enough to hear the music that stirs your soul.

You may discover that what appeared to be an ordinary Tuesday was, in fact, a sacred appointment with God.

After all, holy ground is seldom marked by signs. It is recognized by hearts that have learned to notice the presence of the One who walks beside us every day.

So, watch your step! The ground you are standing on at any given moment could be Holy Terra Firma!

(This column is based on a sermon I preached at the First Baptist Church in Pensacola on July 12, 2009.)

From Sea to Shining Sea: A Prayer for Independence Day 2026

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Gracious God, author of liberty and giver of every good gift, we come before you this Independence Day with a spirit of gratitude and celebration. Two hundred fifty years ago, a fledgling nation dared to declare that all people are created in your image, endowed with rights no earthly power can rightly take away. From the mountains to the prairies, thank you for holding our nation together through all the seasons of this quarter-millennium.

Yet even as we celebrate, we come humbly, for we know that gratitude without honesty is hollow. We confess our sins, both as a nation and against one another. Forgive us for the times we have wielded freedom as a weapon instead of a gift to be shared. Forgive us for the walls we have built where you call us to build bridges — walls of suspicion, contempt, and pride that separate neighbor from neighbor, family member from family member. Forgive us for the harsh words spoken too quickly and the listening ear withheld too long. As your Word promises, “If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land” (II Chronicles 7:14). Hear us now, Lord, and heal our land.

We pray for those who lead us — in this nation, our states, and our communities. Strip away, we ask, every hint of selfish ambition and self-interest that so easily takes root in seats of power. Clothe our leaders instead with moral integrity and political wisdom, that they might govern not for personal gain or party advantage, but for the true good of all people, especially the most vulnerable among us.

We pray for the great gulf that divides so many of your children — by politics, by race, by class, by conviction. Heal it, Lord, and create among us a spirit of unity. Where we have made enemies of those who simply see differently, restore us to one another. Teach us, we pray, that working with one another and truly listening to each other accomplishes so much more than working against each other. Give us the humility to hear before we speak, and the grace to disagree without being disparaging.

And in this season of loud allegiances, remind us that our first and highest loyalty belongs to you alone. From sea to shining sea, may our allegiance to you, O God, rise above our loyalty to any other alliance, affiliation, party, or platform. Let our citizenship in your beloved commonwealth shape our citizenship in our beloved nation, and not the other way around.

Finally, in the Spirit of Jesus Christ, who identified himself with the hungry, the stranger, the imprisoned, and the forgotten, we pray for the least of these among us — the poor, the sick, the lonely, the overlooked. Give us eyes to see them as you see them, and hands willing to serve them as we would serve you.

As we mark two hundred fifty years of this nation’s story, make us responsible stewards of the freedom we have inherited and faithful servants of the One who makes us free indeed. Forge in us the faith and courage to become a more perfect union, a nation that truly pursues liberty and justice for all.

We pray in the name of the One who teaches us to “be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgives you.” (Ephesians 4:32)  Amen.

10 Meaningful Ways to Celebrate America’s 250th Birthday

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As we celebrate the 250th anniversary of the United States of America, we stand at a remarkable moment in our nation’s history. Two and a half centuries of freedom, sacrifice, innovation, and growth have shaped who we are as a people. Independence Day 2026 invites us to pause, reflect, and celebrate not just with fireworks and parades, but with intention and gratitude. Whether you are a history enthusiast, a proud patriot, or simply someone who loves this country, here are ten meaningful ways to make this milestone birthday unforgettable.

1. Read the Declaration of Independence. Take an hour this week to sit down and actually read the Declaration of Independence in full. Too often, we know only the famous opening: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.” But reading the entire document reveals the grievances, the reasoning, and the courage of the founding generation. You will find it moving and instructive. Let the words of 1776 speak to your heart in 2026.

2, Revisit the Great Speeches of Previous Presidents. Listen to or read great speeches from American presidents throughout our history. From Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address to FDR’s Four Freedoms, from JFK’s inaugural address to Reagan’s challenge at the Brandenburg Gate, these speeches capture defining moments and illuminate American ideals. Spend an evening listening to one or two of these speeches. Notice how the language differs from today. Reflect on the challenges faced and the courage required. You might discover a phrase or a principle that speaks directly to your life today.

3. Visit a Historical Site, Museum, or National Park. Plan a trip to one of the great historical sites, museums, or national parks near you. Whether it is a presidential birthplace, a museum of American history, a battlefield, or a national park that showcases the natural beauty of our land, immerse yourself in the physical places that tell America’s story. Walk where patriots walked. See the documents. Stand in the spaces where history happened. Bring your family. Make it an adventure that teaches and inspires all ages.

4. Teach Your Children About American Heroes. Use this anniversary as an opportunity to teach your children or grandchildren about American heroes and their stories. Go beyond what they learn in school. Share stories of ordinary people who did extraordinary things. Talk about the suffragists who fought for women’s voting rights. Discuss the civil rights leaders who sacrificed for justice. Explain the contributions of inventors, artists, and activists. Help the next generation understand that America is built on the contributions of people from many backgrounds and walks of life, all working toward a more perfect union.

5. Volunteer in Your Community. Celebrate America by serving your community. Volunteer at a local food bank, mentor a young person, clean up a park, or serve in an organization that helps those in need. The true greatness of America is not just about freedom; it is about people who care enough about their neighbors to serve them. By volunteering, you embody the spirit of civic responsibility that the founding generation called us to. You put love into action. You make your community stronger.

6. Attend a Naturalization Ceremony. One of the most profoundly American experiences is to witness a naturalization ceremony where immigrants become United States citizens. These ceremonies remind us of the immigrant dream that has always been central to our nation’s identity. Watching people from dozens of different countries stand and pledge allegiance to the United States, tears streaming down their faces, will stir your heart and remind you why this country is worth celebrating. Many courts hold public naturalization ceremonies. Check your local federal courthouse for dates and times.

7. Host a Meaningful Conversation with Neighbors. Invite neighbors over for a picnic, a barbecue, or an ice cream party. Instead of letting the conversation drift to complaints and grievances, intentionally steer it toward meaningful discussion. Ask: “What does America mean to you?” or “What are you most grateful for about living in this country?” or “When have you witnessed the best of American values?” These conversations can deepen friendships and create connections across differences. In a divided time, simply gathering and talking with people is a form of patriotism.

8. Support Local and Small Businesses. Celebrate American entrepreneurship by intentionally shopping at local and small businesses in your community during this season. Every small business owner is part of America’s story. They are dreamers and risk-takers. They create jobs. They invest in their communities. By supporting them, you are celebrating the entrepreneurial spirit that has always been at the heart of American success. Visit that local bookstore, patronize the family restaurant, shop at the farmer’s market. Make your dollars count for local impact.

9. Exercise Your Freedom to Worship. One of the great freedoms we enjoy is the freedom to worship at the church of our choice, or not to worship at all. Regarding religion, there is neither compulsion nor prohibition. One excellent way to celebrate this monumental anniversary is to attend church and join with others to worship God. Unfortunately, there are countless others around the world for whom religious freedom is still a dream and not yet a reality.

10. Reflect on Freedoms and Express Gratitude. Set aside time for personal reflection. Find a quiet place—a park, a church, your backyard—and simply think about the freedoms you enjoy and often take for granted. Freedom of speech. Freedom of religion. Freedom of assembly. Freedom to pursue your dreams. Freedom to live without fear of persecution. Not everyone in the world has these freedoms. Millions of people throughout history have died defending them. Let that reality sink in. Express gratitude to God for these gifts. If you are a person of faith, pray for our nation. If you are not, simply carry a sense of gratitude and wonder in your heart.As we celebrate America’s 250th birthday, let us do so with intention and depth. Yes, enjoy the fireworks and the parades. rill the hot dogs and make the homemade ice cream. But also take time to honor the profound significance of this moment. We are celebrating a nation founded on ideals of freedom, justice, and human dignity. We are celebrating the sacrifices of those who came before us. We are celebrating the diverse people who make up the American story.

Our nation is not perfect. And these days, some of those imperfections are more glaring than at other times. Mark Twain wittily reminded us that “Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.” And so, we are celebrating the hope that, despite our imperfections, we can continue to form a more perfect union.

These ten suggestions offer ways to make your celebration of America’s 250th birthday memorable, meaningful, and transformative. In doing so, you honor not just a date on the calendar, but the ideals and people that make this great nation what it is.

Sweet Liberty: Treasuring the Blessings and Responsibilities of Freedom

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During our nation’s quest for independence, George Washington cautioned, “Liberty, when it begins to take root, is a plant of rapid growth.”

Now, 250 years later, as we celebrate the blessings of our nation and reflect upon the freedoms we enjoy, it is worth remembering that liberty is both a priceless gift and a profound responsibility.

Freedom is not merely the absence of restraint; it is the opportunity to choose what is good, honorable, and life-giving. The Apostle Paul understood this distinction when he wrote: “For you were called to freedom, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through love. For the whole law is fulfilled in one statement: Love your neighbor as yourself.” (Galatians 5:13-14)

Paul reminds us that Christian freedom is not self-centered; it is others-centered. We are set free not simply to do as we please but to become the people God created us to be and to bless those around us.

Our nation’s history beautifully illustrates this truth. On July 4, 1776, the members of the Continental Congress signed the Declaration of Independence, boldly affirming that all people “are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights.” Those words were revolutionary. Yet the founders also understood that liberty would endure only if citizens exercised virtue, accepted responsibility, and remained committed to the common good.

Freedom has never been free. It has been purchased by the sacrifices of soldiers on distant battlefields, preserved by courageous citizens willing to defend justice, and strengthened by generations who understood that rights and responsibilities always travel together.

President Ronald Reagan famously observed, “Freedom is never more than one generation away from extinction.”

His words remain as timely today as when they were first spoken. Every generation must decide whether it will cherish freedom enough to preserve it.

Yet as followers of Christ, we celebrate an even greater liberty. Before we were citizens of any nation, we were captives to sin. Through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, we have been set free from guilt, shame, and the fear of death. As Jesus declared, “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” (John 8:36)

That freedom changes how we live. Christian liberty does not give us permission to ignore others. Rather, it compels us to love more deeply, forgive more readily, serve more generously, and live more faithfully.

William Wilberforce was the British parliamentarian whose Christian faith fueled his decades-long campaign to abolish the transatlantic slave trade. He understood that freedom was not something to be enjoyed selfishly while others remained in bondage. His faith inspired him to spend his life extending liberty to those who had none.

Wilberforce once wrote, “Our motto must continue to be perseverance. And ultimately I trust the Almighty will crown our efforts with success.” His perseverance reminds us that genuine freedom often requires sacrifice, courage, and unwavering conviction.

The same is true in our daily lives.

Freedom means choosing integrity when dishonesty would be easier.

Freedom means choosing forgiveness over bitterness.

Freedom means choosing generosity over selfishness.

Freedom means choosing service over self-interest.

That is exactly what Paul had in mind when he urged believers to “serve one another through love.”

Perhaps that is why the old spiritual “My Country, ‘Tis of Thee” includes the memorable phrase, “Sweet land of liberty.” Liberty is indeed sweet—but its sweetness is found not merely in what it allows us to do, but in what it enables us to become.

Someone wisely said, “Freedom reaches its highest purpose when it is used to glorify God and serve others.”

May we never take our freedoms for granted.

May we cherish the liberties secured by those who came before us.

May we faithfully preserve them for those who will follow us.

And above all, may we use the greatest freedom of all—the freedom we have in Christ—to love our neighbors, serve our communities, advocate for liberty and justice for all, and glorify the One who has truly set us free.

Now that is sweet liberty!

The Four Freedoms: When Music Gives Voice to Liberty

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George Bernard Shaw insisted, “Liberty is the breath of life to nations.”

As our nation celebrates the 250th Anniversary of the Declaration of Independence this year, those words remind us that freedom is much more than a political ideal. It is a precious gift that must be cherished, practiced, protected, and preserved. Freedom has inspired countless acts of courage, sacrifice, and service throughout our nation’s history, and it has also inspired some of our most moving music.

Amanda and I had the joy of spending this past weekend in Pensacola, Florida, where I had the privilege of returning to preach at the First Baptist Church of Pensacola, a congregation I was honored to serve as pastor from 2005 until 2017. Returning always feels a bit like coming home. We were blessed to reconnect with dear friends and worship alongside people who continue to hold a special place in our hearts.

The weekend concluded on a particularly meaningful note as Amanda joined the Festival Chorus and Orchestra for the annual Pensacola Patriotic Celebration on Sunday afternoon. Under the gifted direction of Scot Cameron, the choir and orchestra presented “The Four Freedoms,” a stirring musical by renowned composer Joseph M. Martin. The cantata was beautifully framed by several beloved hymns and patriotic anthems celebrating America’s heritage, creating an afternoon filled with gratitude, inspiration, and worship.

Martin’s work draws its inspiration from one of the most significant speeches in American history. On January 6, 1941, nearly a year before the United States entered World War II, President Franklin Delano Roosevelt addressed Congress and articulated a vision for a world founded upon four essential human freedoms that should belong to every person, everywhere.

Those freedoms continue to speak powerfully to our generation.

Freedom of Speech reminds us that truth flourishes where people are free to express their convictions respectfully and without fear.

Freedom of Worship affirms the priceless privilege of worshiping God according to the dictates of one’s conscience. As followers of Christ, we understand how extraordinary that freedom truly is and how many believers around the world continue to worship amid great hardship in regions hostile to religious expression.

Freedom from Want expresses the hope that every individual can enjoy life’s necessities and the opportunity to live with dignity.

Freedom from Fear envisions a world where peace replaces violence and where families can live without constant anxiety over oppression and war.

Through soaring melodies and inspiring lyrics, Joseph Martin transformed Roosevelt’s timeless vision into a compelling musical testimony. The presentation celebrated America’s past, but it also challenged us to consider our responsibility for America’s future.

As I listened Sunday afternoon, I was reminded that music has an extraordinary ability to unite hearts. Long after a speech has been forgotten, a song often continues to echo in our memories. Music not only entertains; it teaches, inspires, and preserves the values that shape a nation.

The timing of this presentation could not have been more fitting. During this week, as we celebrate the 250th Anniversary of our great nation, The Four Freedoms gave voice to our celebration. Yet it also reminded us that freedom is never something to be taken for granted. Every generation must choose to practice these freedoms responsibly, protect them courageously, and preserve them faithfully for those who follow.

President Ronald Reagan wisely observed, “Freedom is never more than one generation away from extinction.”

His words remain as relevant today as when they were first spoken. Liberty survives not by accident but because ordinary citizens exercise it with wisdom, gratitude, and responsibility.

As Christians, however, we celebrate an even greater freedom. Jesus declared, “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” (John 8:36)

Political freedom is one of God’s greatest blessings, but spiritual freedom is God’s greatest gift. Through Christ we are set free from the power of sin, the burden of guilt, and the fear of death.

Perhaps that is why this concert was so meaningful. It reminded us that the greatest songs not only celebrate our country’s freedoms—they point us toward the One who is the source of all true freedom.

May we celebrate this historic anniversary with gratitude, renewed patriotism, and an unwavering commitment to use our freedoms not merely for ourselves, but for the good of others.

And may we leverage our freedoms to align with and advocate for those for whom freedom is still a dream yet to come true.

Life Lessons for Graduates: 12 Travel Tips for the Journey Ahead

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Graduation season is always emotional. Caps and gowns fill auditoriums. Proud parents wipe away tears. Grandparents beam with pride. Students celebrate years of hard work while simultaneously wondering what comes next.

High school graduation is both an ending and a beginning. One chapter closes while another unfolds. For many graduates, the future feels exciting, uncertain, intimidating, and hopeful all at the same time.

I think some of the best counsel for this season of life comes from from Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”

Those verses remind us that life is not navigated merely through intelligence, ambition, or talent. Life is best navigated through trust in God’s guidance.

With that in mind, here are twelve pieces of spiritual advice I would offer to every high school graduate.

1. Trust the Lord in all seasons.

Trust God not only during victories, but also during disappointments and uncertainty.

Life will not always unfold according to your plans. Dreams may shift. Doors may close. Unexpected detours will arise. But faith means believing that God still walks beside us even when the road becomes difficult.

As Corrie ten Boom wisely said, “Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God.”

Sometimes God’s greatest work happens in seasons we never would have chosen for ourselves.

2. Ask honest questions.

Healthy faith is not afraid of honest questions.

Throughout Scripture, faithful people wrestled with uncertainty. Moses questioned God. David poured out doubts in the Psalms. Thomas asked for evidence after the resurrection.

Questions are not signs of weak faith; they are often pathways toward deeper faith.

James 1:5 reminds us: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God.”

Never stop seeking truth, wisdom, and understanding.

3. Learn to be at home in your own skin.

One of the greatest challenges facing young adults today is comparison.

Social media constantly pressures people to measure themselves against curated versions of other people’s lives. But God did not create you to become a copy of someone else.

Psalm 139 says we are “fearfully and wonderfully made.”

Brené Brown advises, “Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do.”

Learn to embrace the person God created you to be.

4. Never waste a mistake.

You are going to make mistakes. Everyone does. The important thing is not whether you fail, but whether you learn and grow from failure.

The Apostle Peter denied Jesus, yet grace restored him and transformed him into a leader of the early church.

Mistakes can become classrooms of wisdom if we allow them to teach us.

5. Invest wisely and focus on treasures that do not have an account number.

Learn financial responsibility early in life. Save wisely. Avoid unnecessary debt. Practice generosity.

But also remember that the greatest treasures in life are not material possessions.

Integrity. Friendships. Faith. Love. Compassion. Character.

Jesus taught in Matthew 6:20: “Store up for yourselves treasures in heaven.”

Some of the most valuable things in life cannot be purchased.

6. Don’t be afraid to venture outside your comfort zone.

Growth rarely happens in comfortable places.

Abraham had to leave home.
Peter had to step out of the boat.
Esther had to risk speaking up.

You may feel nervous about college, a new career, or unfamiliar opportunities. That’s normal. Courage is not the absence of fear; it is moving forward despite fear.

C. S. Lewis observed, “Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny.”

Do not let fear shrink your future.

7. Be proactive in caring for your physical and mental health.

Your physical and emotional well-being matter.

Get enough rest. Exercise regularly. Talk honestly about your struggles. Seek help when you need it.

There is strength—not weakness—in reaching out for support.

In a culture where many people feel exhausted, anxious, and isolated, self-care is not selfishness; it is stewardship.

8. Stay connected to a spiritual community.

Faith is not meant to be lived alone. Wherever life takes you, stay connected to a church family and surround yourself with spiritually healthy influences.

Hebrews 10:25 encourages believers not to neglect gathering together.

A coal separated from the fire eventually grows cold. Community helps sustain faith during difficult seasons.

9. Don’t let the labels others attach define you.

People may underestimate you, criticize you, or attempt to define you by your failures.

But labels do not determine identity.

David was labeled “just a shepherd.” Zacchaeus was labeled “a sinner.” Mary Magdalene was labeled by her past.

Never allow someone else’s opinion to limit what God can do through your life.

10. Cultivate and nurture friendships intentionally.

The people closest to you will influence your future more than you realize. But meaningful friendships don’t happen by default.

Proverbs 13:20 encourages us to “Walk with the wise and become wise.”

Some friendships inspire growth and wisdom. Others quietly pull people toward destructive choices.

Pay attention to who shapes your values, habits, and priorities.

11. Practice kindness in a harsh world.

We live in an age often marked by outrage and cruelty. Choose kindness anyway.

Be encouraging. Be compassionate. Be willing to listen.

Maya Angelou observed, “People will forget what you said… but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

Kindness leaves a lasting imprint on the world.

12. Navigate the turbulence of life with discernment and perseverance.

Life will not always be smooth skies and gentle winds. There will be unexpected storms, emotional turbulence, disappointments, and moments when the future feels uncertain.

In those moments, resist the temptation to panic or make impulsive decisions.

The Apostle Paul wrote in Galatians 6:9, “Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

As author Max Lucado counsels, “You’ll get through this. It won’t be painless. It won’t be quick. But God will use this mess for good.”

There will be seasons when life feels turbulent. Hold steady. Pray carefully. Think wisely. Keep going.

Storms do not last forever, and perseverance often becomes the bridge between where you are and where God is leading you.

As you step into this next chapter of life, you will carry far more than diplomas and transcripts into the future. You will carry values, memories, relationships, faith, and the lessons that shape character.

The road ahead will include both breathtaking mountaintops and unexpected valleys, but do not walk it alone. The same God who guided you through childhood, classrooms, friendships, victories, and disappointments will continue directing your paths.

So dream boldly, love deeply, serve joyfully, and trust God completely.

Following the Footsteps of Paulos: 10 Things We Learned About the Apostle Paul

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In his first epistle to the Corinthians (11:1), Paul urged the believers to, “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ

There is something transformative about walking where the apostle Paul once walked—standing in the shadows of ancient cities, tracing the roads of his missionary journeys, and imagining the courage it took to carry the gospel into unfamiliar and often hostile places.

All the members of our travel group arrived home safely yesterday after our 12-day tour following the footsteps of Paul.

From Thessaloniki to Philippi, from Berea to Athens—and even reflecting on the missed opportunity to visit Ephesus and Patmos—this journey has deepened our understanding of Paul’s life, ministry, and message.

Here are ten things we learned about Paul while following in his footsteps:

1. Paul went where the people were.
In every city, Paul positioned himself where conversations were already happening—synagogues, marketplaces, and gathering places. In Areopagus (Mars Hill), he engaged philosophers in thoughtful dialogue (Acts 17).

Paul practiced the words of Jesus from Mark 16:15: “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation.”

Paul reminds us that mission begins where people already are.

2. Paul adapted his approach without compromising his message.
In Jewish settings, Paul reasoned from Scripture. In Athens, he quoted Greek poets and connected with their worldview.

As John Stott once said, “We must be global Christians with a global vision because our God is a global God.”

Paul met people where they were—but always pointed them to Christ.

3. Paul faced opposition almost everywhere he went.
In Thessaloniki and Philippi, he encountered resistance, imprisonment, and persecution (Acts 16–17).

Perhaps it was because of experiences like this that Paul wrote to young Timothy, “Everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.” (II Timothy 3:12)

Faithfulness does not guarantee ease, but it does produce endurance.

4. Paul invested in people, not just places.
In Berea, he encountered believers who eagerly studied the Scriptures (Acts 17:11). His ministry was never about checking locations off a map—it was about nurturing lives.

The historian Will Durant once observed, “A great civilization is not conquered from without until it has destroyed itself from within.” Paul knew that transformed people shape transformed communities.

5. Paul trusted God in uncertain circumstances.
Whether traveling dangerous roads or enduring imprisonment, Paul moved forward in faith.

Paul believed that God’s presence and purpose were persistent. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him.” (Romans 8:28)

Even when plans change—like our missed stops in Ephesus, Patmos, and Santorini—God’s purposes are still at work.

6. Paul proclaimed a bold and relevant gospel.
Standing in a culture filled with idols, Paul did not dilute the truth. But neither did he aim to offend. He dialogued with others at their point of need and their level of understanding. At Mars Hill, he proclaimed the one true God (Acts 17:24).

As C.S. Lewis wrote, “Christianity, if false, is of no importance, and if true, of infinite importance.”

Paul preached a gospel that invited deeper thought and an informed response.

7. Paul saw every city as a mission field.
From bustling ports to intellectual centers, Paul viewed each location as an opportunity. Athens, with all its philosophy and culture, was no exception.

David Livingstone later wrote, “Here is a plain truth: God calls us to go where He is not known.”

No place was too complex, too pagan, or too resistant.

8. Paul built bridges through common ground.
In Athens, Paul referenced an altar to an unknown god and used it as a starting point (Acts 17:23).

This approach reminds us that connection often precedes conversion.

9. Paul left a lasting legacy through his letters.
Though we could not walk the streets of Ephesus, Paul’s letter to the Ephesians continues to shape the church today. Whether writing from his sojourn or a prison cell, Paul’s correspondence was practical, contextual, and encouraging.

Although Paul did not know his correspondence would end up in the New Testament, Paul believed, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching…” (II Timothy 3:16)

Paul’s influence extends far beyond geography.

10. Paul’s life pointed others to Christ, not to himself.
Ultimately, Paul’s journey was never about Paul. It was about Jesus.

His daring perspective is summarized in his words, “For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.” (Philippians 1:21)

As Augustine of Hippo once said, “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they rest in you.”

Although we had a few delays and cancellations during our coming and going, this journey was more than a tour—it has been a pilgrimage.

We have stood in ancient cities, traced sacred stories, and reflected on a man whose life was wholly surrendered to God’s mission. Even in the places we could not visit, like Ephesus, the impact of Paul’s ministry remains undeniable.

And perhaps that is the greatest lesson of all: Faithfulness is not measured by where you go, but by how fully you follow.

As we return home, may we carry Paul’s example with us as we aim to live boldly, love deeply, and encourage generously.

Although our journey has ended, our mission continues.

You can follow the journal of this journey at Ancient Footsteps: Highlights from Our Missionary Journeys of Paul Tour 2026.

Lent: A Time for Spring Cleaning of the Soul

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A Lenten Devotional

Every spring, in addition to doing a more thorough cleaning of the house, my wife and engage in a “cleaning out” of our closet and personal items. This process involves sorting, discarding, and reorganizing.

The season of Lent arrives each year quietly inviting us to open the closet of our soul and take an inventory. Just as spring cleaning clears away the dust and clutter that accumulates unnoticed, Lent calls us to examine our inner lives and make space for God’s renewing grace. It is not about self-condemnation, but soul-restoration.

Scripture reminds us that God is deeply interested in this interior work. The psalmist prays, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me” (Psalm 51:10). Lent is that season when we hold our inner self up to the light and ask what needs to be swept out. This may include things like the resentments we’ve nursed, the habits that dull our compassion, and distractions that throw us off track.

Spring cleaning is rarely glamorous. It involves getting into corners we’d rather ignore. Yet it is precisely there that grace does its best work. When we fast, pray, give generously, and practice repentance, we are not earning God’s love. Rather, we are clearing away the debris that keeps us from experiencing it fully.

C.S. Lewis suggested,“Relying on God has to begin all over again every day as if nothing had yet been done.” Lent gently reorients us in this daily reliance. Each act of surrender is like wiping down a dusty shelf. It is a small but intentional practice that is transformative over time.

In the early 16th century, Martin Luther described repentance not as a one-time event but as a lifelong posture. In a world focused on outward religious performance, Luther emphasized the ongoing need for inner renewal. This radical idea reframed faith as a continual turning of the heart toward God. His insight affirms that repentance is not about dwelling on guilt, but about returning to grace again and again.

As we journey through Lent, imagine God walking through the rooms of your soul with you, not as a harsh inspector, but as a loving companion. Some things will be kept, while others will be discarded.

Lent has a way of decluttering the chaos within so that our sense of peace is restored. Many years ago, Billy Graham advised, “Like a spring of pure water, God’s peace in our hearts brings cleansing and refreshment to our minds and bodies.”

This year, when Easter arrives, may it find our hearts lighter, cleaner, and more spacious, and ready to welcome the risen Christ with joy.